Create the Perfect Online Dating Profile – Tinder Tips That Work
This post will focus on the dating app Tinder, and how to optimize your profile photos. However, everything in this post can also be applied to other forms of online dating.
What you will learn:
- What women want (really??.. yep)
- What qualities to portray to attract beautiful women
- How to setup your pictures for maximum success
- How I engineered the perfect online dating profile and increased my match percent to 90+%.
Ready for some great Tinder dating tips about creating the perfect profile? Let’s do this!
SKIP TO THE NEXT PART IF YOU DON’T LIKE GEEKY EXPLANATIONS
What Do Women Want?
Wow, that is the one question that has haunted men (and women) for centuries.
Luckily, we actually have a pretty good understanding of what attracts woman after the whole pick-up community has been studying that kind of stuff for years.
First, we need to accept that we as humans are heavily controlled by our instincts. We are highly evolved animals with urges, fears, and an insanely strong will to live and have children.
As men, we can use this information to spark interest in the girls by showing off our masculine traits that offer females the best chance of success in life, and the best possible offspring.
I don’t want to go into too many details about the whole thing here, but in broad strokes it works like this.
Advanced Machines
We are biological machines that have one main purpose; to have offspring and make sure they have optimal conditions for survival/thriving.
The human body, including the brain, is not so different from that of our ancestors many years ago when we lived in a cave and hunted with a club.
Our instincts and urges are therefore mostly based on what was very practical back then.
For example, most women are attracted to alpha males; leaders and men in power.
The same can be observed in the animal kingdom. It is the alpha lion, ape, monkey, and wolf that will mate with the females in the pack.
Ergo, for us to show alpha qualities is a big turn on for most women. If you think this is bullshit, just look at our society.
Who has a 25 year old hot chick as their girlfriend when they are 60+? Rich or famous guys!
Name one dude that is 60+ and is not rich or famous but has a hot 20 something girlfriend.
He might have the most amazing collection of model trains, but since this is not viewed as important by our biology, it won’t get him laid.
He could be the coolest dude in the world in other areas of his life, but if they don’t give him elite status, it is not what woman are looking for, and so he won’t get young pussy. If he is really into model trains, he might not even be getting any old pussy, either!
Are Women Gold Diggers?
So what is it with rich guys that are hot? Is it just because of the money? Only that they can buy flashy stuff to show off to the world?
Some of it is money, yes. But there is another deeper level to it. It’s all about status.
Money brings with it status. Power brings with it status.
With those things, people are going to look up to you, admire you, and listen to you. This in turn will give you a greater chance of raising successful offspring, since you have to support and ensure the safety of the whole community.
Also, having money in itself shows power. You can have nice stuff, thereby showing the world that you are successful. You can make sure your child will never starve and will have the optimal conditions for survival.
But I’m not rich or famous! These tinder / online dating tips suck…
Don’t worry. Like I said, this is not the main reason.
We want to understand why women act like they do and use it to our advantage. We want to show girls and women that we have the following qualities:
- Confidence Social Skills
- Being a Leader
- Being Unique
- Being passionate
- Preselected by Woman
Let’s go over them one by one and see why these traits are so favorable and what tips we can use for making great Tinder profiles (or other online dating profiles).
Confidence
This is the most important quality of them all. You can be an idiot in many other areas but with enough confidence, you will still have success.
Alpha males are confident. Imagine your boss, an important CEO, a successful entrepreneur, or politician. Are they hesitant and insecure about themselves? No.
They know their value and will take what they think they deserve in life.
So step up and be a man. Speak your mind, and don’t worry so much about what other people think of you.
This is also a big reason why guys have the impression that girls only like the bad guys. Bad guys are naturally confident.
Guys that are too sweet are normally not. They give off the vibe that they really want the world to like them, instead of not being focused on other people’s opinions.
Social Skills
Knowing how to interact with other people is hot.
Show women that you are comfortable around people. It does not matter if you are an introvert and like your personal time, you still need to be able to make people like you.
It comes back to status. A woman does not want to be with a guy that everybody else thinks is weird. That will lower her status. She will think “no thanks”, and move on.
Show her that you are a social guy with cool people in your life.
Being a Leader
A leader is an alpha male. Like we discussed, this is a huge turn on. A leader is the center of attention. When he/she speaks, people automatically listen.
Show pictures on your Tinder profile of you getting attention.
If you are standing with a group of friends, make sure you’re in the middle.
Have a picture of you talking while everybody else is listening.
If you are in a group in motion, try to be at the front of the group, leading it.
Being Unique
This is basically the same as confidence, but since most people have to fake confidence (nothing wrong with that), I will highlight this trait correlated with being confident.
“Just be yourself” is always the advice you get from girls.
They are not wrong, but they don’t understand that you need a huge amount of confidence to actually pull that off successfully.
Therefore, you should aim to stand out from the flock. If you are exactly like everybody else, then you will be boring; but furthermore, it shows that you have tried really hard to be like everybody else!
Nobody is like everybody else naturally.
By not having your own opinions, hobbies, and passions, you show the women that you aimlessly are trying to fit in. This is not a trait of a leader or alpha male.
And it does not make you unique to play computer games 10 hours a day. No matter how passionate you are about it.
This is mainly because it’s in direct conflict with having good social skills. If you live your life at your computer, the chances are that you are not good in social situations.
And lets be honest. Playing a shit ton of computer doesn’t really make you unique.
Being passionate
Is an extension of being unique. Find a hobby you’re passionate about.
Build a life you’re passionate about. This is an extremely sexy quality for both women and men to have.
Think about it. Would you rather be with a girl that is really good at something, or somebody that doesn’t really care about anything too deeply – so that everything is just, meh?
Preselected by Woman
Do you know why you always feel like girls are more attracted to you when you’re in a relationship?
It’s because they are! By you having a girlfriend, they immediately know that you are cool enough to have girls in your life.
You are getting pussy on a regular basis and are not a complete loser. If your girlfriend is hot, this reflects even better on you. To have a hot girlfriend, you need to be a cool guy.
It’s not like women are thinking these things. Almost all attraction happens unconsciously.
We can show that we are preselected by women by showing off pictures with us being around women.
These kinds of social pictures will give you way more status than a picture of your WoW Guild meet up last winter from your online gaming group.
Some Practical Tinder Dating Tips
Let’s talk about what kind of pictures to put on your Online Tinder profile.
The Main Picture: This is the one that people will see when they swipe, so let’s make this a good one.
Your main profile picture should be mostly about you. Don’t use a picture where you are surrounded by 3 other people and it’s not clear which one is you. It’s annoying as fuck, and is normally used to cover your insecurities.
Make sure the picture shows your face. Basically, take the best photo you can of yourself.
Social Picture: Have a picture of you being social. It doesn’t matter what kind of situation, as long as you are surrounded by people.
Preferably these people are giving you attention, and you are looking good in the picture.
Cool Life Picture: Show off with anything cool you are into.
You playing in a band, traveling, or doing (extreme) sports are all good ideas.
You can use multiple activities, but not more than 2 of the same type.
Picture with a Girl: Use a picture with an ex or a female friend.
If you use pictures of an ex, make sure you do not look like you are together in the pictures! Otherwise, it will just look like you have issues getting over her.
If possible, use one where you seem friendly and are having a good time, but ensure nothing romantic is going on. The hotter the girl is the better.
That information should give you a good idea of what to include in your pictures. Remember that there is a lot more qualities women are looking for. However, these traits are some general universal traits that will give you an awesome foundation.
Extra stuff to include in your Tinder profile picture
Make sure you include a picture where you can see your whole body, or else girls will think you are fat. Even if you are fat, you should not try to hide it. They will find out sooner or later.
If you are ripped and want to show off your abs, do it in a way that seems natural. Do not use a picture of you taking pictures in the mirror flexing. This is not cool, bro.
Instead, take a picture of you chilling outdoors in the summer sun with no shirt on. Or swimming in a lake. Some kind of situation where it is natural for you not to have your shirt on.
My Perfect Tinder Profile Picture. Online Dating Taken to Another Level!
So I wanted to create the perfect Tinder Profile Picture.
After I put it up, I pretty much had 100% match results. I am not going to show you the picture because I value my privacy, but here is what I did.
I had been working out for almost a year and had a ripped body. I went to the beach on a summer day and brought my spear gun with me.
Since it was not really the right area for spearfishing, I had bought a fresh fish from the market along with me (dinner at the same time, perfect).
I went for a short swim to get wet and make it look natural, and then had a friend take a picture with me in my swim trunks, and great abs, holding the spear gun with the fish on it.
I had the family dog by my side and he was looking up up happily at me.
We timed it perfectly (my friend helped shoot the pictures) so that 2 cute girls were walking by, looking curiously at me.
Imagine that. I am showing off a great body, being a provider/manly, being passionate, being unique, being a leader (even if it’s just a dog following me, lol), being preselected by women, and being confident.
Trust me. It is worth the couple of hours of planning to set up a situation where you look like a semi-god. Best investment in the pussy bank ever.
Next time, we will talk about what to use as a killer description.
