Want to know how to turn girls on in Tinder? It’s a psychological game. And sure, let’s say guys with six packs have the advantage, but even without the buff body girls usually drool over, or that chiseled jawline… You – yes, YOU – CAN TURN HER ON with these 3 tips!
These tips make use of basic human interaction and convert it into an online experience. Things that turn a girl on when you’re talking to her in person is equally as effective as when she’s using dating apps like Tinder. So, not only can you use these tips to improve your chances online – you can apply these to when you’re actually meeting her. 
She’ll be dripping with excitement for you! (pun intended)
Lets jump into how to turn girls on in Tinder! Starting with one of my personal favorite, since its been proven to be the most effective when it comes to online dating:
#1 NO BEATING AROUND F*CKIN’ THE BUSH
Be direct, straight to the point, and no dilly-dallying. Remember, when women usually take a lot of turns, Men go straight forward.
We all know what guys want in Tinder – and it’s definitely NOT making friends. Girls know that! So having stuff in your profile saying “I’m really just looking for someone to hang out with” or “Let’s be friends” isn’t the authentic crap women are looking for.
Sure, it might land you a few “I just wanna chat” profiles. But be honest, it’s the “I want to to take me right now!” we all want.
What really turns a girl on is how a man isn’t afraid to tell her what he wants. Get it out there, man. Tell her right on your profile. Take out the “Im really just” and the “I might” and even the “I could/would” Being unsure of yourself is a sign of insecurity, and we all know that turns her off.
Man up, take out the flowery, girly, here-and-there stuff. Keep it short, complete, and fuckin’ direct.
- Shorter profile descriptions
- Short, straight to the point messages
- No second guessing
- No fake lines or long openers
Girls love a dominating, assertive man. Which brings us to our next tip:
#2 OWN YOUR SH*T AND BE A MAN
Girls are looking for MEN, not soft and shy boys. Ask yourself, does your pic show that you’re a man? Or is it some edgy dramatic sh*t?
Face it, being a badass wins girls over in Tinder. But don’t be a douchebag f*ckboy either. We’ll discuss that in detail in the next tip. For now, let’s focus on showing your manliness.
Take note, that just as YOU are attracted to feminine women, girls are attracted to masculine men.
Women want a man that can ravage her in bed and take control. Why? Because that’s what a Man is. They take control and they HAVE control over their life. Women want security, and that’s instinctive. Which means its innate and she won’t have the power to reject that. (That’s why women love active men over the passive ones – because they show they can get things done.)
Our bodies were optimized for Men to be the one to protect women while they care for our young. Even when society and culture has already developed to the point where women can fend and care for themselves, anatomically, part of that instinct will always be there.
Show her you’re not a guy that bends over for anyone.
- Have a badass pic. Save the sentimental sh*t for another time. At least one badass pic of you doing cool sh*t. Like jet skiing or skydiving. Even stuff like trekking or playing in a band (an actual band in a stage and NOT you holding a guitar in your bed) works fine.
- Show confidence and make the move
- Don’t apologize for telling her you like her
- Be active, not passive.
Now, to make things clear – being a man doesn’t mean you have to be a douche about it. Our last tip is:
#3 DON’T BE AN A*SHOLE
How to turn a girl on in Tinder? Don’t be an a*shole. The moment a girl gets a whiff of you being a f*ckboy – she’s going to swipe left or block immediately.
Women all have an anti-slut defense. No matter how horny or turned on they are, they’re not gonna go and get it on with a guy that’s going to brag to all his friends about it. Or with a guy that’s going to treat them like dirt after they had their way with her. It’s a trend that’s spreading like wildfire. Women hate f*ckboys now.
They’re not going to lie in bed with a douchebag, and dozens of profiles show that off the bat.
Remember how women want a guy that makes them feel secure? Women want to sleep in bed with men they can trust. You can own your sh*t and be a man without being an a*shole about it. They also don’t want to be associated with a guy that banged dozens of women and are in it for the fame and solo fun.
Make her feel good about herself, because it’s not just about you – keep that in mind if you’re going to want quality women. She’s probably going to beg for more of you after all that!
So just what gives off a douchy, f*ckboy vibe that repels women? Well… a lot of things guys are usually unaware of. So, make sure that you:
- Don’t use Bathroom selfies. Proven and tested. Shirtless bathroom selfies don’t get you the best swipes. If you really want to show your guns and abs, use a beach or pool pic. Its way less douchey and doesn’t give a “Look at me bitch Im seeking attention” vibe.
- Same with gym pics. Gym pics with you flexing just oozes insecurity and self-centeredness. If you’re at the gym, you work out. You don’t take selfies. Remember what I said in the bathroom selfie part.
- Flipping off. Really? A f*ck you Tinder pic? You’re not a kid anymore. It isn’t “cool”
- Drunk pics/ Picks with too much booze. A party pic with your friends is fine. But you about to hurl or doing something embarrassing is another thing.
Disrespectful profile descriptions. Respect women, okay? They’re not going to trust you if you treat them or any other person like dirt.
